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He came to my office to talk a few weeks before he took his life. He was obviously unhappy. We talked about a lot of things-his marital difficulties, his continuing unemployment, his general sense of despondency. But I remember one part of that conversation distinctly. He asked if God could forgive any sin. I asked him if he had done something that he thought I should know about. He said that he hadn't. I still think about that. I only wish that I had understood what he was trying to say and done something about it.
As a member of the clergy, you have the vital yet daunting job of guiding people through many of
life's challenges-marital discord, job loss, illness, death, and more. This unique role offers an
opportunity to help people at risk of suicide in ways that even family members or mental health
professionals cannot. By listening to people and getting them the help they need, you can make a
difference.
Each year, more than 30,000 Americans will end their lives as a way to escape the intolerable pain
of living. Many people, including clergy, find it difficult to understand why people take their own
lives. The very thought of suicide has clear moral and spiritual implications in many religions.
You have an opportunity to prevent suicide by taking threats seriously, recognizing many of the
warning signs of suicidal behavior, and understanding the factors associated with such behavior.
A review of the literature revealed that fairly large numbers of people who are thinking of harming
themselves turn to clergy rather than to mental health professionals, and that clergy could benefit
from training on how to recognize and respond to people who may be at risk of suicide (Goldsmith,
Pellmar, Kleinman, & Bunney, 2002). Some research indicates that more than twice as many people
with diagnosable mental health problems will see a cleric rather than a psychotherapist, for many
reasons: People may be more comfortable with their cleric than with a therapist; religious
counseling does not have the negative connotations that many people associate with mental health
care; and many people are not able to afford mental health care.
The National Strategy for Suicide Prevention identified the clergy as "key gatekeepers-those
people who regularly come into contact with individuals or families in distress must be trained to
recognize behavioral patterns and other factors that place individuals at risk for suicide and be
equipped with effective strategies to intervene before the behaviors and early signs of risk evolve
further" (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2001, p. 78). However, it is important to
remember that you cannot be all things to all people. You are a spiritual guide. You may have
training in counseling. But you may not be qualified, on your own, to offer therapy to someone
confronting mental illness or serious emotional problems. Even mental health professionals have
difficulty assessing a particular individual's relative risk of suicide. It is essential that you
know both the possibilities and the limits of your role and your training. You must do what you
can-and defer to mental health professionals to do what you cannot.
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People who are considering suicide often display warning signs-sometimes directly, sometimes indirectly. You should be especially alert for imminent warning signs, for example:
These signs are especially critical if the person has a history or current diagnosis of a psychiatric
disorder or serious psychological problem, is abusing alcohol or other drugs, has attempted suicide
in the past, or has had a suicide in his or her family. Young people who have experienced the suicide
(or other violent or sudden death) of a friend, peer, or celebrity role model should also be taken
very seriously if they display warning signs of suicide.
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Your response to warning signs should be targeted at keeping the person safe, providing empathy and support, and ensuring that the individual receives the mental health and/or social services necessary to reduce his or her risk. As a cleric you can, and should, do the following:
Goldsmith, S. K., Pellmar, T. C., Kleinman, A. M., & Bunney, W. E. (Eds.). (2002). Reducing suicide: A national imperative. Washington, DC: The National Academies Press. Retrieved March 14, 2005, from http://www.nap.edu/openbook.php?isbn=0309083214
U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. (2001). National strategy for suicide prevention: Goals and objectives for action. Rockville, MD: Author. Retrieved March 18, 2005, from http://www.sprc.org/library/nssp.pdf
Organizations
American Association of Pastoral Counselors (AAPC) (http://www.aapc.org/)
The American Association of Pastoral Counselors (AAPC) represents and sets professional standards for
pastoral counselors and pastoral counseling centers; it also offers continuing education, networking
opportunities, in-service training, and supervision, and facilitates growth and innovation in the
ministry of pastoral counseling. AAPC is non-sectarian and respects the spiritual commitments and
religious traditions of any individual.
Suicide Survivor Support Group Online Directories
The American Association of Suicidology (AAS) and the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP)
offer online directories of suicide survivor support groups. The AAS directory is located at
http://www.suicidology.org/associations/1045/files/
Support_Groups.cfm. The AFSP directory can be found
on the AFSP website (http://www.afsp.org/index-1.htm) on the navigation bar under "Survivors."
Publications
Clark, D. (Ed.). (1993). Clergy response to suicidal persons and their family members. Chicago: Exploration Press.
Dunne, E. J., McIntosh, J. L., & Dunne-Maxim, K. (Eds.). (1987). Suicide and its aftermath: Understanding and counseling the survivors. New York: W. W. Norton & Co.
Quinnett, P. G. (2000). Counseling suicidal people: A therapy of hope. Spokane, WA: QPR Institute. Retrieved March 18, 2005, from http://www.qprinstitute.com/
Suicide Prevention Resource Center. (2004). After a suicide: Recommendations for religious services and other public memorial observances. Newton, MA: Education Development Center, Inc. Retrieved March 18, 2005, from http://www.sprc.org/library/aftersuicide.pdf
Suicide Prevention Resource Center (http://www.sprc.org/). The Suicide Prevention Resource Center (SPRC) provides prevention support, training, and materials to strengthen suicide prevention efforts. Among the resources found on its website is the SPRC Library Catalog (http://library.sprc.org/), a searchable database containing a wealth of information on suicide and suicide prevention, including publications, peer-reviewed research studies, curricula, and web-based resources. Many of these items are available online.
American Association of Suicidology (http://www.suicidology.org/). The American Association of Suicidology is a nonprofit organization dedicated to the understanding and prevention of suicide. It promotes research, public awareness programs, public education, and training for professionals and volunteers and serves as a national clearinghouse for information on suicide.
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (http://www.afsp.org). The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) is dedicated to advancing our knowledge of suicide and our ability to prevent it. AFSP's activities include supporting research projects; providing information and education about depression and suicide; promoting professional education for the recognition and treatment of depressed and suicidal individuals; publicizing the magnitude of the problems of depression and suicide and the need for research, prevention, and treatment; and supporting programs for suicide survivor treatment, research, and education.
National Center for Injury Prevention and Control (http://www.cdc.gov/ncipc/). The National Center for Injury Prevention and Control (NCIPC), located at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, is a valuable source of information and statistics about suicide, suicide risk, and suicide prevention. To locate information on suicide and suicide prevention, scroll down the left-hand navigation bar on the NCIPC website and click on "Suicide" under the "Violence" heading.
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/). The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline provides immediate assistance to individuals in suicidal crisis by connecting them to the nearest available suicide prevention and mental health service provider through a toll-free telephone number: (800) 273-TALK (8255). Technical assistance, training, and other resources are available to the crisis centers and mental health service providers that participate in the network of services linked to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline.
Suicide Prevention Action Network USA (http://www.spanusa.org). Suicide Prevention Action Network USA (SPAN USA) is the nation's only suicide prevention organization dedicated to leveraging grassroots support among suicide survivors (those who have lost a loved one to suicide) and others to advance public policies that help prevent suicide.
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